I was a devoted listener to Paul Harvey for more years than I care to remember often listening to the same broadcast on two different radio stations so I wouldn't miss a word. I don't think Paul would mind me passing along his message once more, just so you don't forget the rest of the story.
Message by Radio Personality, Paul Harvey
We tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse.
For my grandchildren, I'd like better. I'd really like for them to know about hand-me down clothes and home made ice cream and left over meatloaf sandwiches. I really would.
My cherished grandson, I hope you learn humility by being humiliated, and that you learn honesty by being cheated. I hope you learn to make your bed and mow the lawn and wash the car.
And I really hope nobody gives you a brand new car when you are sixteen. I hope you have a job by then. It will be good if at least one time you can see a baby calf born and your old dog put to sleep. I hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in.
I hope you have to share a bedroom with your younger brother. And it's all right if you have to draw a line down the middle of the room, but when he wants to crawl under the covers with you because he's scared, I hope you let him. When you want to see a Disney movie and your little brother wants to tag along, I hope you'll let him.
I hope you have to walk up hill to school with your friends and that you live in a town where you can do it safely. On rainy days when you have to catch a ride I hope your driver doesn't have to drop you two blocks away so you won't be seen riding with someone as uncool as your Mom.
If you want a Slingshot, I hope your dad teaches you how to make one instead of buying one. I hope you learn to dig in the dirt and read books. When you learn to use those newfangled computers, I hope you also learn to add and subtract in your head.
I hope you get razzed by your friends when you have your first crush on a girl, and when you talk back to your mother that you learn what Ivory soap tastes like.
May you skin your knee climbing a mountain, burn your hand on the stove and stick your tongue on a frozen flag pole. I hope you get sick when someone blows cigar smoke in your face. I don't care if you try beer once, but I hope you don't like it. And if a friend offers you dope or a joint, I hope you realize he is not your friend.
I sure hope you make time to sit on a porch with your grandpa and go fishing with your uncle. May you feel sorrow at a funeral and the joy of holidays. I hope your mother punishes you when you throw a baseball through a neighbor's window and that she hugs you and kisses you at Christmas time when you give her a plaster of Paris mold ofyour hand.
These things I wish for you - tough times and disappointment, hard work and happiness.
Are we friends or are we not?
You told me once but I forgot.
So tell me now and tell me true.
So I can say..."I'm here for you."
Of all the friends I've ever met,
you are one I won't forget.
And if I die before you do,
I'll go to heaven and wait for you.
By Paul Harvey, newscaster.
Sometimes the most beautiful things are in our own backyard. In one of Dean's posts on the Denied website, Dean writes "If you only go fishing to catch fish you are missing so much." The quote may not be exact but I'm sure you get the meaning. If you don't, take a child with you on your next fishing trip, watch as he/she enjoys the bait fish, thrills as a gull screeches down to pick up a discarded bait, or stares intently at the horizon and you can only imagine what they are thinking. There is so much more to fishing than just catching fish.
